It the last Sunday of the month which means it's time for...
This one will definitely make you go, "hmmmm," and think about how we as adults behave!
Boo Who? by Barbara Gruener
Today's sportsmanship reflections are inspired by a recent Friday Night Lights experience. Here's what happened: A sophomore defensive player on the Varsity team lost his helmet during a block on the 50 yard line. He got himself up and kept on running to keep the opposing team from scoring a touchdown. He finally caught up and tackled the player with the ball around the 20 yard line. While the crowd was applauding the defensive prowess and perseverance of this young athlete, the official threw a flag and charged him with a personal foul. The fans' cheers quickly erupted into a loud, shrill booooooooo. Turns out that once an athlete has lost a helmet, he's supposed to be done on that play; safety first, after all. I'm not really sure whether they were booing the ref, the rule, or the player, but I suspect it was the former.
So today I'm wondering when, if at all, we're justified in booing at a sporting event. Do we boo when we disagree with a call? Do we boo when the other team makes a good play? Or when our team does something we don't like? Is it acceptable to boo for penalties? If so, are we booing the ref and his call or the players and their choices?
Here's something to think about: What are we teaching our children about sporting-event etiquette these days? I was taught by my parents, for example, not to boo. Ever. Period. Under any circumstances. In fact, I was told at a very young age that booing shows poor sportsmanship. It's just not something we did. Maybe times and expectations are changing because I was also taught to clean up after myself and throw my trash away, yet it seems a fairly common practice to leave one's trash in the stands. What about the School Song? Do we stand up and remove our hats out of respect for our School Song? What about for the other team's School Song?
Is there an honorable way to pursue victory? If so, what is it? And who gets to decide that? How might it look if not only did we not boo, but if we cheered for the other team? Check out what happened when this Coach suggested his fans cheer for their opponent under their Friday Night Lights:
Time to think twice about the influence our behaviors have on everyone around us and our future leaders.